FINDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.

The ten Principles of relationship Investment.
1. Spend quality time with each other.
2. Be open and honest and dont withhold from each other.
3. Suprise each other with flowers,romantic dinners,notes,gifts, etc.
4. Plan weekends away.
5. Stay curious about each other & commit to a feeling of adventure.
6, Cultivate your good will in your partner,
7.Work on clarifying your boundaries.
8.Improve your communication skills.
9. Focus on the positive aspects of the relationship.
10. Become more self-disclosing & intimate.
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Page 1Are you in or having a bad relationship with family or your loved ones?
Are You Having a Bad
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FINDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.
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1. Chat up.
My advice is keep to the simple stuff, and you will find contentment and happiness.First of all you will won't to meet people you are to get along with, people with similar aims and ambitions, morals etc
Some one who you can communicate with, and communicates with you.
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You will want to get to know each other, by dating safely. Visit a Bistro for example.
Here is an example of how Maslow can help with relationships. What we will talk about today is Maslow's Hierarchy, or Pyramid, of Needs. It is a psychological theory proposed by Abraham Maslow in 1943. And while it mostly relates to describing stages of human growth, I find that it makes a lot of sense for relationships.
The higher up the pyramid you can manage to take your relationship, the more solid it will be. I think this relates to friendships, and on into marriage. Let's diagnose each level.
Physiological: This is pretty simple. Before you can manage any sort of relationship, you need to be free and healthy. Able to survive and maintain your status as Human. Be sheltered, clothed, and able to eat and breathe.
We'll also include in this topic, which both parties involved in the relationship, whatever it may be, need to know and understand what that relationship is, and agree to it together.
Safety: Personal and fiscal security. Basic needs that relate to more than just a roof over one's head.
In a relationship, this means the partner being conducive to your safety, in whatever situations they need to be. If your friend plans to get drunk before he drives you home, he is not meeting this need. If your spouse is gambling away all of the family finances, they are failing.
In a partnership you must provide encouragement, sympathy, and comfort to your partner. Trust, honesty, and security are needed. And protection of one another's emotions, mental state, and physicality.
Love: What is love really? Love is being accepted. It is feeling as though you belong. Are you being shown love?
Making love and being affectionate and intimate are requisite for marriage. Compassion and tenderness toward your spouse, while this seems obvious, can be overlooked at times, which can be very damaging.
Esteem: This item takes us further than love. For some people they might intermingle the two. Maslow ties respect to esteem, but respect can also incorporate with love. For the sake of this writing, know that esteem is about not just the love that others show you, but the respect you have for yourself. It's about belonging, and feeling accepted by your friend/spouse.
On one level it is a need for attention. Recognition. A high status. It's not that you need to be famous or recognized on a large scale; we are still talking about within your relationship. Your partner needs to pay attention to you, hold you in high regard, and desire you.
Another level is one of independence, liberty, and self-confidence. It is about your partner having the strength to stand on their own two feet, and not just be your sidekick. Allowing them the freedom to be themselves, not just an extension of you. And being sure that they have respect for themselves. Letting them know that they are with you by choice, and are an amazing person all-their-own.
Self-Actualization: This is about being who you are, and growth. Realizing your potential, and not being held back.
It is also about expression. Some would choose to be athletic, some artistic, etc. Everyone needs a way to express just who they are, and become damaged when not able to do so. In a partnership both should be pushing each other to express themselves as they need
Made relationship mistakes in the past?
So the big question is; how do you know you have found your match?
OK! you have just met someone, and you have prepared yourself for a relationship by getting to no you and what your needs are.
So the next step is to discover whether they possess the qualities that you are seeking in a partner. They may well be doing the self-same thing.
Some traits, like their sense of humor and how good looking they are apparent.
Others such as music and their taste in food are easy to talk about.
However, the more important qualities will take longer to uncover. For example, how can you tell if someone is honest and reliable, without putting them on the spot?
This is where you must feel confident in making your choices, listen to yourself and give your self-time, you deserve it.
2. Fixed up.
My advice is keep to the simple stuff, and you will find contentment and happiness. First of all you will won't to meet people you are to get along with, people with similar aims and ambitions, morals etc.
Someone who you can communicate with, and communicates with you.
i.e. Phase 1. The Chat Up.
You will want to get to know each other, by dating safely. Visit a restraunt for example.

The higher up the pyramid you can manage to take your relationship, the more solid it will be. I think this relates to friendships, and on into marriage. Let's diagnose each level.
Physiological: This is pretty simple. Before you can manage any sort of relationship, you need to be free and healthy. Able to survive and maintain your status as Human. Be sheltered, clothed, and able to eat and breath.
We'll also include in this topic, that both parties involved in the relationship, whatever it may be, need to know and understand what that relationship is, and agree to it together.
Safety: Personal and fiscal security. Basic needs that relate to more than just a roof over one's head.
In a relationship, this means the partner being conducive to your safety, in whatever situations they need to be. If your friend plans to get drunk before he drives you home, he is not meeting this need. If your spouse is gambling away all of the family finances, they are failing.
In a partnership you must provide encouragement, sympathy, and comfort to your partner. Trust, honesty, and security are needed. And protection of one another's emotions, mental state, and physicality.
Love: What is love really? Love is being accepted. It is feeling as though you belong. Are you being shown love?
Making love, and being affectionate and intimate are requisite for marriage. Compassion and tenderness toward your spouse, while this seems obvious, can be overlooked at times, which can be very damaging.
Esteem: This item takes us further than love. For some people they might intermingle the two. Maslow ties respect to esteem, but respect can also incorporate with love. For the sake of this writing, know that esteem is about not just the love that others show you, but the respect you have for yourself. It's about belonging, and feeling accepted by your friend/spouse.
People are very much individualistic, and because of this I think things do not always go exactly in ascending order of the pyramid. http://www.WooInWonderland.comhttp://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Chris_Trader
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Are You Having a Bad
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FINDING A GOOD RELATIONSHIP.
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1. Chat up.
My advice is keep to the simple stuff, and you will find contentment and happiness.First of all you will won't to meet people you are to get along with, people with similar aims and ambitions, morals etc
Some one who you can communicate with, and communicates with you.
i.e. Phase 1. The Chat Up.
You will want to get to know each other, by dating safely. Visit a Bistro for example.
Here is an example of how Maslow can help with relationships. What we will talk about today is Maslow's Hierarchy, or Pyramid, of Needs. It is a psychological theory proposed by Abraham Maslow in 1943. And while it mostly relates to describing stages of human growth, I find that it makes a lot of sense for relationships.
The higher up the pyramid you can manage to take your relationship, the more solid it will be. I think this relates to friendships, and on into marriage. Let's diagnose each level.
Physiological: This is pretty simple. Before you can manage any sort of relationship, you need to be free and healthy. Able to survive and maintain your status as Human. Be sheltered, clothed, and able to eat and breathe.
We'll also include in this topic, which both parties involved in the relationship, whatever it may be, need to know and understand what that relationship is, and agree to it together.
Safety: Personal and fiscal security. Basic needs that relate to more than just a roof over one's head.
In a relationship, this means the partner being conducive to your safety, in whatever situations they need to be. If your friend plans to get drunk before he drives you home, he is not meeting this need. If your spouse is gambling away all of the family finances, they are failing.
In a partnership you must provide encouragement, sympathy, and comfort to your partner. Trust, honesty, and security are needed. And protection of one another's emotions, mental state, and physicality.
Love: What is love really? Love is being accepted. It is feeling as though you belong. Are you being shown love?
Making love and being affectionate and intimate are requisite for marriage. Compassion and tenderness toward your spouse, while this seems obvious, can be overlooked at times, which can be very damaging.
Esteem: This item takes us further than love. For some people they might intermingle the two. Maslow ties respect to esteem, but respect can also incorporate with love. For the sake of this writing, know that esteem is about not just the love that others show you, but the respect you have for yourself. It's about belonging, and feeling accepted by your friend/spouse.
On one level it is a need for attention. Recognition. A high status. It's not that you need to be famous or recognized on a large scale; we are still talking about within your relationship. Your partner needs to pay attention to you, hold you in high regard, and desire you.
Another level is one of independence, liberty, and self-confidence. It is about your partner having the strength to stand on their own two feet, and not just be your sidekick. Allowing them the freedom to be themselves, not just an extension of you. And being sure that they have respect for themselves. Letting them know that they are with you by choice, and are an amazing person all-their-own.
Self-Actualization: This is about being who you are, and growth. Realizing your potential, and not being held back.
It is also about expression. Some would choose to be athletic, some artistic, etc. Everyone needs a way to express just who they are, and become damaged when not able to do so. In a partnership both should be pushing each other to express themselves as they need
Made relationship mistakes in the past?
So the big question is; how do you know you have found your match?
OK! you have just met someone, and you have prepared yourself for a relationship by getting to no you and what your needs are.
So the next step is to discover whether they possess the qualities that you are seeking in a partner. They may well be doing the self-same thing.
Some traits, like their sense of humor and how good looking they are apparent.
Others such as music and their taste in food are easy to talk about.
However, the more important qualities will take longer to uncover. For example, how can you tell if someone is honest and reliable, without putting them on the spot?
This is where you must feel confident in making your choices, listen to yourself and give your self-time, you deserve it.
2. Fixed up.
My advice is keep to the simple stuff, and you will find contentment and happiness. First of all you will won't to meet people you are to get along with, people with similar aims and ambitions, morals etc.
Someone who you can communicate with, and communicates with you.
i.e. Phase 1. The Chat Up.
You will want to get to know each other, by dating safely. Visit a restraunt for example.

The higher up the pyramid you can manage to take your relationship, the more solid it will be. I think this relates to friendships, and on into marriage. Let's diagnose each level.
Physiological: This is pretty simple. Before you can manage any sort of relationship, you need to be free and healthy. Able to survive and maintain your status as Human. Be sheltered, clothed, and able to eat and breath.
We'll also include in this topic, that both parties involved in the relationship, whatever it may be, need to know and understand what that relationship is, and agree to it together.
Safety: Personal and fiscal security. Basic needs that relate to more than just a roof over one's head.
In a relationship, this means the partner being conducive to your safety, in whatever situations they need to be. If your friend plans to get drunk before he drives you home, he is not meeting this need. If your spouse is gambling away all of the family finances, they are failing.
In a partnership you must provide encouragement, sympathy, and comfort to your partner. Trust, honesty, and security are needed. And protection of one another's emotions, mental state, and physicality.
Love: What is love really? Love is being accepted. It is feeling as though you belong. Are you being shown love?
Making love, and being affectionate and intimate are requisite for marriage. Compassion and tenderness toward your spouse, while this seems obvious, can be overlooked at times, which can be very damaging.
Esteem: This item takes us further than love. For some people they might intermingle the two. Maslow ties respect to esteem, but respect can also incorporate with love. For the sake of this writing, know that esteem is about not just the love that others show you, but the respect you have for yourself. It's about belonging, and feeling accepted by your friend/spouse.
People are very much individualistic, and because of this I think things do not always go exactly in ascending order of the pyramid. http://www.WooInWonderland.comhttp://EzineArticles.com/?expert=Chris_Trader
Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/5616217
Take your time.
Firstly, simply make it clear you are interested in getting to know them. Furthermore, going slowly in a relationship gives you the benefit of discovering whether you are making the right choice for you. Secondly, you need time to get to know the other person and time for them to get to know you.
The more you know about a person, the more potential problems you can rule out.
Therefore when you take time to get to know someone you can observe them in different situations and moods. furthermore it alows opportunities to find out whether their values and attitudes are compatible with yours and how comfortable you are with each other.
Finally, this will give you a real indication of how lasting and happy any relationship is likely to be.
Furthermore, knowing what you want in a partner helps you to make a more informed and conscious choice in your relationships.
3. Loved up.
If you won't to stay 'All Loved Up' then you will need to have an upstanding of the courtship guide lines.Firstly, don’t take each other for granted! One of the major rules for a happy courtship is that; never take your partner for granted.
Furthermore, you can be secured of his/her presence in your life but you should never ever get used to it.
Moreover, always give your partner the required attention and importance that is needed and deserved. Be attentive to their tensions. When they share their happiness with you is a part of it.
Finally, any relationship needs e to grow and breathe a healthy life. When you are in your courtship period you need to address this issue well, as it is of paramount importance. Don't have unrealistic expectations of your partner and create issues on small matters.
So can you give e to each other?
Top Tip-increase your self-worth and what you feel you deserve.
To summarize then, please remember that first impressions can be deceiving and it is important to listen to your inner knowing about whether someone is right for you. Moreover, taking a relationship slowly at first, and before you become intimately involved gives you the best chance of creating a successful relationship. When we accept and respect each other, we feel loved and appreciated, and this creates a sense of equality in our relationships .Equality is a crucial factor in a successful relationships.
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Take your time.
Firstly, simply make it clear you are interested in getting to know them. Furthermore, going slowly in a relationship gives you the benefit of discovering whether you are making the right choice for you. Secondly, you need time to get to know the other person and time for them to get to know you.
The more you know about a person, the more potential problems you can rule out.
Therefore when you take time to get to know someone you can observe them in different situations and moods. furthermore it alows opportunities to find out whether their values and attitudes are compatible with yours and how comfortable you are with each other.
Finally, this will give you a real indication of how lasting and happy any relationship is likely to be.
Furthermore, knowing what you want in a partner helps you to make a more informed and conscious choice in your relationships.
3. Loved up.
If you won't to stay 'All Loved Up' then you will need to have an upstanding of the courtship guide lines.Firstly, don’t take each other for granted! One of the major rules for a happy courtship is that; never take your partner for granted.
Furthermore, you can be secured of his/her presence in your life but you should never ever get used to it.
Moreover, always give your partner the required attention and importance that is needed and deserved. Be attentive to their tensions. When they share their happiness with you is a part of it.
Finally, any relationship needs e to grow and breathe a healthy life. When you are in your courtship period you need to address this issue well, as it is of paramount importance. Don't have unrealistic expectations of your partner and create issues on small matters.
So can you give e to each other?
Top Tip-increase your self-worth and what you feel you deserve.
To summarize then, please remember that first impressions can be deceiving and it is important to listen to your inner knowing about whether someone is right for you. Moreover, taking a relationship slowly at first, and before you become intimately involved gives you the best chance of creating a successful relationship. When we accept and respect each other, we feel loved and appreciated, and this creates a sense of equality in our relationships. Equality is a crucial factor in a successful relationships.
By Paul Thompson.
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